This is a fairly trivial hardware hack. I needed to run a DtD link between two AREDN nodes (which are located far apart in the hosue), but snaking the extra cat5 cable thru my house isn't a trivial matter. But the existing cat5 cables have two extra twisted pairs (assuming not used for POE) that I grabbed to run the DtD link. I also did this to pipe two main router ports over one cable, to the point where they split to different rooms in the house. This gave me the extra pairs to do the DtD link.
Much easier to field repair, less cable splicing, and less room for violating cat5e spec (don't even get me started on cat6 specs)
But yes some vendors make adapters to do this, I've even seen the pairs split at the patch panel in some cases too (for those who are like me and have patch panels)
Of course, but in my case the "easy here" spot is in an attic crawl space without power.
And if you're handy with a soldering iron, you can make a reasonable splice of the twisted pairs using heat shrink and maintain the twisted-ness of the twisted pair. Some experience with RF (HF and VHF) helps. Cat5 seems fairly forgiving of impedance bumps and such (think it has some echo cancellation ability). Though if you're running a very long (100 meter) length of cat5, you'd be more likely to not get away with it.
I don't understand the problem. I have two units and I simply connect each of them to the house network with a single cable. My switch supports IEEE 802.3af but Ubiquiti uses a nonstandard PoE so I simply add the provided power injectors at the switch connections. The nodes talk directly to each other using VLAN 2.
They (or one of them) could also talk to the default LAN (no tag) and act as a router for my other computers, but I prefer not to do it that way. On both units I disable DHCP, set "LAN Mode" to NAT so it won't chew up a piece of the address space, and disable the WAN. Instead I have my main home router, which runs Debian Linux, speak OLSR natively to the two units over VLAN 2 as though it were a third Ubiquiti node. My router thus routes traffic between my home computers and either the mesh network or the regular Internet depending on destination address, acting as a NAT when necessary. Works great.